I spent my third transfer on purchasing building materials like timber, windows and doors which I used in building a decent house as per our tradition which require a widow to build a new house. I also bought clothes and shoes for the family members and food that we shared with the workers who were building my new house.

I spent my second transfer on buying iron sheets which I'm planning to use in building my compound because currently I'm staying in my father-in-law's compound. I bought a solar panel for lighting because I had a tin lamp and used some of the money to pay my dowry since my spouse passed on before paying my dowry.

I feel I have made a step a head by buying iron sheets so I have the hopes of soon having my compound. This will give me a lot of peace and a feeling of independence.

I spent my first transfer on repaying a loan I had borrow some time back before the transfers were sent. I wondered how I would pay the loan whose repayment had already elapsed and notices of arrest had been sent by the group's officials if I failed to pay back the loan within some give duration of time. Besides that, I also purchased my children school uniform and other school requirements that they needed to study appropriately in school.

When I received my transfer, I felt so happy because it would enable me repay the loan that had put me in a lot of frustrations.