Describe the moment when you received your money. How did you feel?
It was around 2pm, and I was engrossed in a chama gathering, surrounded by sense of camaraderie and shared purpose. Amid the chatter and laughter, a familiar notification tone interrupted the atmosphere, I resisted the urge to check the message immediately, instead, I decided to wait until I returned home at 6pm, when my husband and I could share in this moment of potential transformation together. At long last, the time arrived when my husband and I sat down, ready to unveil the contents that could alter the trajectory of our lives and in the backdrop of this anticipation was a pressing reality, the weight of unpaid dowry where my parents' expectations loomed over us, their concerns reaching a crescendo and the first decision we made upon reading the message was to allocate a portion of the transfers towards addressing the dowry issue. This decision was a testament to our determination to fulfill a financial obligation to preserve family harmony and find a way forward. Our actions weren't just about money; they were about bridging gaps, easing tensions, and reaffirming our commitment to our shared journey. As I reflect on that transformative day, am reminded that change doesn't always happen in grand moments but involves a decision and a commitment. The support we received through GiveDirectly was a catalyst for positive change, a chance to navigate challenges, and an opportunity to lay the foundation for a harmonious and empowered future.
Describe the biggest difference in your daily life since you started receiving payments from GiveDirectly.
The changes brought about by our decisions following the transfers have filled us with excitement and gratitude, reshaping our family dynamics and our position in the community. One of the most profound shifts occurred when we allocated funds to pay dowry. This pivotal step carried financial significance and, also held deep cultural and familial implications. By fulfilling this obligation, we gained a sense of peace with my parents, solidifying our position as a united family with their blessings. This harmonious resolution marked the beginning of a new chapter, where we can confidently move forward, secure in our relationships and free from the looming pressures that once clouded our interactions. The decision to invest in goats has had a ripple effect beyond our expectations. These animals, beyond their economic value, have bestowed upon us respect within our community. In societies where livestock is esteemed, owning goats signifies stability and resourcefulness. This elevated status enhances our sense of self-worth and strengthens our role within our community's social fabric. The transformation in our daily life is particularly evident in our improved access to food. Previously, the struggle to secure food was a constant challenge. Now, with the ability to allocate funds directly for food purchases, our family has been liberated from the uncertainty and anxiety that often accompanied our efforts to source sustenance.
What did you spend your most recent transfer(s) on?
One of the immediate decisions was to allocate $200 towards dowry payments immediately we received the transfers. This step addressed a significant cultural obligation and contributed to family unity and stability. Resolving this financial matter was crucial in ensuring our relationships remained intact and harmonious. Recognizing the potential for growth and financial security. The purchase of five goats, including one male and four females, amounted to $200. This investment holds multiple benefits; besides being a source of income, the female goats would multiply, potentially expanding our financial resources. This signifies a departure from a hand-to-mouth existence, as we now possess a means of generating income that has the potential to alleviate financial pressures. Part of the transfers, $50, was designated for purchasing food. Previously, I had resorted to selling charcoal to generate income to buy food. The ability to purchase food directly helps meets a basic need and also spares us from the exhausting endeavor of trading physical labor for sustenance. We chose to save $100 for emergency purposes. This prudent decision serves as a safety net, offering protection against unforeseen challenges that may arise. It represents our ability to plan for the future and be better prepared for unexpected situations. The support received from GiveDirectly has allowed us to transcend survival mode and enter a realm of calculated progress.